Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Old Friends vs Good Friends

We all have old friends, not in terms of age but for the prolonged period of time since you've met the person, you do give each other hugs when you see one another, you go to his prom night during college, when your loved ones passes on, he'll call to check out on you but these are mere short contacts which cuts off after you press the red button on your mobile. Could it be myself that i wasn't proactive enough in maintaining this friendship?

Good friends are keepers but not that the former isn't. I went out for dinner with one sec school mate late night and it was fun. Though we never had anything non-platonic going on, i feel guilty that i might be partly responsible for his failed marriage. Well you see, wives do get jealous over female buddies and knowing the woman that i am as much as all you girls out there, we're bottomless pits of jealousy. I'm glad at least this friend is THE keeper. We can chat about anything under the sky and not feel offended with mindless comments. To talk about staying together was great and to plan for contingency like if you ever meet a guy/girl and have to move out, what will happen and NO it's not fuck buddy, no sex or even emotions that go further than simply friends are involved or ever will. One day, he will find his princess and i will keep my third eye on the watch because he's really someone who will appreciate a girl the right way. Take this as an advertisement if you wish, he does deserve a good girl.

If his ex-wife is reading this, though it might never ever happen, you have just missed out on the man who loves you more than anything. Your suspicious character had put me as a likely suspect and you couldn't be more wrong. There could be platonic friendster between opposite sexes and we're just one of the many good examples out there. Adn up till today, nothing has changed and never will so you are just so wrong. This mistake is costing you your lifelong happiness and you are bound to live to regret your dumb decision.

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