Wednesday, May 30, 2007

La"seek"

Been thinking about having Lasik done for the longest time ever. Whenever new technology surfaces, side effects you might get based on the old technology would be revealed due to the efforts of promoting the new technology. Hence my reservation getting Lasik done on my eyes. Yes, your eyes! One of the most precious gift you would ever receive and never take it for granted. We do, don't we. I often forget there are people who never had the convenience of having eyesight, they will never get to experience the colours and views we did or will see.

I have had friends who have done it and also friends who work at the Eye Centre and friends who could get discounts, the list goes on and i still can't muster enough courage to do it. I've spoken to a candidate today who have just done the procedure not long ago with a great ophthalmologist and i think i will go see this guy. His price range is a little steep but hey, it's an expensive asset to protect. The issue now would be the cost. Once i get a good placement and get the money in my pocket, i will get it done.

This is not an advertisement but here's the website to the clinic that i wanna get my Lasik done. http://www.lasiksurgeryclinic.com

On an entirely separate note, i have added some links on your rights. Click on them to access to the blogs of my loved ones. If you have a blog you wanna add on to my list, leave me a message and i'd do it immediately. Being legally trained, i reserve all rights to reject any request or to take down anyone's link at any point in time. I will have all the discretion i need on MY blog.

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Ironies

My cousin from Malaysia is here. Let's just call her "Closest Distance". We spent a great deal of time together when we were younger. Whenever we were having school holidays, Grandma would bring me to this little town called Sungei Rengit, about 20 mins drive further down Desaru. We will take this little dodgy looking bumboat and spend a month there. There wasn't anything fun but it gives my Grandma some time off this concrete jungle and back to her home with clean air.

"CD" loves to play with my hair and will always style them into ponytails, plaits. Come to think of it, life really pull a fast one on her - She has got 3 kids, all boys. Frankly, and i hope she never sees this because i love her so much as a cousin - Her kids are terrors. They are so mischievous, you would just wanna slap them so hard, that they'll never get off the couch again to irritate you. Being the all nice person she is, she spoils her kids rotten as well.

"CD" is not actually related to me by blood. She's adopted because her birth parents couldn't afford to keep her but fortunately for her, my Uncle adopted her and gave her quite a comfy life. Then again, she's actually more of a real cousin than some hypocritical ones out there. My third uncle has 2 sons and both of them are totally, entirely and incorrigibly horrible and heartless. One of them looks like the blatant stupid murderer and the other one just seems like the geeky serial killer. You may think that i'm terrible to say such things about them but the blatant and stupid possible murderer did not even grief or wore white, which was supposed worn to shown grief, during the funeral. I think it's the severe inferiority complex that makes him wanna be better than others but face it, he is someone i'm ashamed of to be called my cousin. On one hand, i feel bad that i'm saying this BUT if you've gone through what i did, you would agree with me. This family has no respect for anyone and created havoc during my Grandma's funeral which in turn, caused me to blow up and cry. Bastards!

So no matter how unstoppable "CD"'s kids are, i always have the patience for them and i would still bring them out and buy them stuffs. How ironic!

Monday, May 28, 2007

Not So Gay Blog

Watch this space: http://kwang-comingoutbutsonotgay.blogspot.com

Even the title is hilarious...

Happy Back At Work

I can't believe i'll ever say this but i was looking forward to come back to work and really happy to be doing something on a supposedly, Blue Monday. It was pretty eventful for a Monday. "Comedy Boss"'s computer broke down so we were all trying to fix it. Well, with the exception of "Elitist Money Grabber" who sat, stuck on his chair all the time. Mind you, he was still sitting where he was even when sparks were flying and "Gorgeous Eye Lift" almost got electrocuted. The only time we managed to get him slightly concerned was when the computers all shut down, including his. There was partial blackout and he couldn't quite work for the time being. Being ultra concerned with the billions that he's not earning while the computeres were down, he suggested to get an electrician to get things fixed. WE DIDN'T NEED TO BE TOLD TO KNOW THAT! Duh!

My new colleague, a.k.a "Gym + Work Buddy" isn't quite in shape today so she's not in the office. Have i told you guys that she's actually really nice and i like her. I think we're gonna have a blast working together.

I know it may sound weird but i've just gotta say this for my own record. Work to me is like taking baby steps, it's slow and you fall but you've gotta bring yourself to get up and walk again. Right now, i'm moving and walking and learning how to walk efficiently so i can run. Some things are getting finalised now and my work is getting recognised and paid off. I'm glad things are working well for me now and i've just got to put in that much more to be able to run the marathon.

Sunday, May 27, 2007

Once Again, A Spa Trip to Malacca

Yet another Malacca trip. The initial plans was to head for Tioman together with Monkey and his company and of course, plus Zhao Cai Mao. With a series of unfortunate events, we found out there were shortages of rooms at the resort we were suppose to be put up. We were suppose to share a hut with Monkey and Zhao Cai Mao and that seemed ok. But things kinda took a sharp and unexpected turn when Tubby called one afternoon and told me that we are not going for the Tioman trip. I didn't quite probe but it could be because of some changes in events or remarks. Then again, it was good afterall since our Malacca trip was great.

Most people might think that it's a boring place and it's so unhappening. I must admit it can get boring and meaningless. But the most important thing that kept the trip alive was that we had each other. Frankly, Malacca wasn't the first choice and we did wanted to make it for the Tioman trip but guess it's all fated and we'd just have to plan it on a later date.

We stayed at the same hotel we did the last time but the difference this time, i managed to book the spa and it was fabulous. It's the retreat i needed since a long long time. I was so afraid that it'd turn out to be a disappointed but thankfully, it didn't. We booked a room on Friday and got tranferred to a much bigger room on Saturday. It was a upgrade, guess it was a suite or something. Well it wasn't free, but it's still reasonable and the breakfast was stll worth waking up early for.

Regular trip to the night bazaar at Jonker was unavoidable since there was nothing else to do. Buying and chomping down food along the way was so much more fun than we hoped. I don't mind doing one of this trip every now and then just for the spa and food.

Right now, i shall save up my annual leaves and give my bank account some time to recuperate before we plan for our big trip to Melbourne in August.

Saturday, May 19, 2007

Phantom Of The Opera

Bravo! I'm definitely not the first nor the last person to make sure a comment and it's absolutely brilliant. I love it. The precision, the set, the cast are all top notch.

I was trying hard to keep myself awake throughout the show, not because it made me sleepy. I just had a hard week i guess. Given a chance, i'd love to watch it again. Thank goodness the coming week is gonna be a short one.

Musicals in general, do not welcome late-comers and in fact, if you're late, you will not be admitted until the intermission. But given the nature of Singaporeans who simply love to be late for everything, was unsurprisingly late for the musical and interrupted everyone else. Due to the limited leg room, the whole role of people had to stand up when this couple came in late for the musical and unfortunately for all of us, they're seated right in the middle of the semi-circle. These people should just be taught a lesson and not be late.

On top of their punctuality issue, the management actually had to block out phone reception for the entire theatre. Despite all that, there were people who still took their phone out to check/play half way through the show. I'm not scomplaining just about everything but you know when the theatre is dark, someone whose playing with their phone will look damn obvious. C'mon, give the cast due respect. the rightfully deserve them and just because you've paid for it, doesn't mean you're king. I've paid to enjoy my show in peace as well!

After the show, i ran into Twiggy and Miss Pan Pac. Of all people, only Miss Pan Pac shared my schoolgirl craziness squirming over the body of the Phantom and how cute we can imagine him to be just by the size of his shoulders. Ooohh...Swoooonnn...

I'd love to catch the Phantom again in my lifetime. It's great and all worth it.

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Another Home

Another Home

Not discussing on how I’ve shuttling between Tubby’s place and my own. It’s the song Home by Chris Daughtry.

Since his American Idol days, I’ve always thought that “this guy could sing”. Well I’ve always tried to avoid saying I love rock music because I’ve never thought that I’d like them. Some people may think that it’s really cool but if asked my favourite genre of music, I’ll say bossa nova without hesitation. I don’t know much about bossa nova I must admit but I love listening to them. They do make me feel more relaxed and I love how it feels. Rock music, on the other hand, doesn’t exactly get classified into chillout music but I always catch myself loving rock. When I say rock, it’s got to be more soft rock, “emo” rock and not the hard or heavy metal sort. I think Tua Tow and the gang has a large part to play. I used to hang out with them while they were playing those emo rock on their guitars and I’ve loved it since. I always find myself sucking into listening to these songs over and over again and before I know it, I’m lip syncing to the words.


Chris Daughtry - Home

I'm staring out into the night
Trying to hide the pain
I'm going to the place where love
And feeling good don't ever cost a thing.
And the pain you feels a different kind of pain.

I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me
I'm not running from
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old
So I'm going home.
Well I'm going home.

The miles are getting longer, it seems,
The closer I get to you.
I've not always been the best man or friend for you.
But your love, remains true.
And I don't know why.
You always seem to give me another try.

So I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,

And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.

Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all,
And then some you don't want.
Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all, yeah.

Oh, well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.
I said these places and these faces are getting old.
So I'm going home.
I'm going home.

Stubborn Mule

One day my stubbornness is just going to be the demise of me. My reluctance to give in and my insistance on my stand will just make my life miserable. To think that i've gone through 26 years of stubborn life and should know very well by now that it's not doing me any good. I have not change and not very sanguine with any possibility of that ever happening. I guess as we get older, priorties change, we will learn to bear with things and keep them within than to let it blow up. However, the stubbornness is likely to stay.

Stubbornness is not an entirely a character flaw. It's just the way some people are i guess. To stand by one's decision should be encouraged. We should never bow down to untruths or wrongs. However, when you know certain decision is going to be life changing, then i reckon it's about time we just take a step back and think about what life has to offer had we not insist to voice our opinion or think we're right.

If only i have a knob to turn down my stubbornness when it is not helping my life in anyway...

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Fuck You!

I do not need anyone to do me a favour when i have legs to walk. When i don't talk when i'm upset, that is purely because i do not wish to get into any sort of arguement. I do have a fundamental human right to get upset.

Fuck the world. I don't need anyone. Fuck you!

Friday, May 11, 2007

Movie Review: Priceless

Taken from GV's website: Jean, a shy waiter working in a grand hotel, is mistaken for a young millionaire by beautiful, scheming adventuress Irene. When she discovers his lowly status, Irene beats a quick retreat. But love struck Jean has no intention of letting her escape, and pursues her to the Cote d'Azur. Quickly running out of money, he adopts his beloved's lifestyle, setting himself up as a gigolo and moving into a magnificent luxury hotel. Irene at last accepts this new Jean. She starts to give him advice, she grows closer and closer to him, not realising that love is working its subtle magic on her too.

The acting is fabulous. Audrey Tautou is beautiful (She's the girl from Amelie and The Da Vinci code). She's got the legs and abs every girl would die for. The dresses she wore, Wow. The shoes, Wow. The hotel, Wow. The parties, Wow. The love without a price tag, triple Wow.

This is the sort of lifestyle every girl longs to live without the pre-requisite to sleep with disgusting rich men though. Loads of shopping, beautiful hotels and beaches, chilling out and not having to work on a weekday afternoon but then again, how boring would it be to be living it out without meaning to life. I am glad that both of them found true love in the end but in reality, this will never happen. C'mon, what's for lunch?

4 out of 5 Popcorns

Having said the above, this is a must watch movie.

Tuesday, May 08, 2007

Ministry of Sound

It was a night of boys night out and i have decided to tag along. Needless to say, loads of alcohol and smoke. How unhealthy. Haha but i'm totally out of it, i was so awake, even at the end of the day, i feel that i could have flown a plane home.

I guess Tubby did enjoy himself with his bunch of bachelor classmates. I did try to run through my phonelist for single girls but they're either taken or they wouldn't be interested in men in general.

Got a call from Inuka when we were heading for Double O and we ended up at MoS since the bunch of fitties were there. Good to catch up...

But when we were there, there was this bunch of boys, seems like young Korean chaps, who were dancing behind Inuka. Given the protective nature i have over Inuka, seeing that she was obviously uncomfortable and possibly disturbed, i shoved her into the spot where i was dancing and took hers. The irritatant bunch then tapped me on my arm repeatedly. I got really peeved and warned them that it wasn't not funny. Sir Single and Available just went stright out to warn them with his "bigger than my face" fist. I guess the guys felt threatened and left. Had he not done that, i must have put my fist into the guys' groin with as must weight as i could muster. I wished i had the courage to do that the first time they tapped on my arm.

For that reason, i'd avoid MoS at all cost in future.

Sunday, May 06, 2007

Personal Updates

Been rather busy with work and Tiger's condition so haven't got much time to blog. Just a general updates to keep those of you out there who are concerned weith Tiger in the loop since Tiger can't sms you and tell you he's in the ICU or when he's discharged.

Tiger's fine except for some sort of permanent damage to one of his kidneys but all in all, he's healthy and running. In fact, the blood test shows that he's fine just that he may need to be on special diet for the rest of his life. And considering his tender age, it's not going to be easy for him. Please don't ask me if he's a girl or guy because i have no idea of how to reply. Just see it for yourself. I'm sticking to using him for now.

As for me, i'm fine. There's some new colleague at work and she's been great. Very sweet Aussie girl. Will update once i get to know her better.

Tuesday, May 01, 2007

Popcorn Review: Provoked (3 1/2 out of 5 popcorns)

Happy Labour Day! To me this day doesn't mean anything more than a public holiday, yoohoo! Enjoying every moment of it...

Went to watch "Provoked" last night. Not exactly a fantastic show but i liked it. Not so much because i've read alot of the case, more that it's a show on how women got together and stood strong against the world. It's truly brave to be able to stomp abuse and get out of it unscathed, almost. I would like to get everyone to watch but knowing most of you would curse and me and tell me that this is more of a DVD show. I think shows like these should be encouraged so people in general are more aware of the true events happening in life and what we've got to do to stop or encourage it. i'm sure there're loads of other cases that can and should be made into movies as well.

We'll be watching Spiderman tonight. I know alot of people must be cursing and swearing that i've got the tickets and could watch it but frankly, i'm not very excited because i've never been a Spiderman fan. then again, if it's a good movie by itself without any inking to the previous episodes, i'd probably enjoy it even more.

Was planning to watch Nightmare Detective but apparently it's off the chart. Damn it.

Has anyone watched Born Into Brothels? It's the sort of documentary movie. If you've watched it, could you give me a mini review? I can post it on the blog??!! I think i'd wanna watch it...

Is this going to be a movie week or what?