What Women Want

Life's full of jigsaw puzzle pieces with jagged and rough edges and because there are not fixed rules and manner on how we should finish the jigsaw, we try in our every might to complete the picture. Inevitably, little spaces between the edges need to be filled up. Just like in every relationship, at most times it's not about the big things that you do but also the little things which it's not unsafe for us to term them simple pleasures in life (provided that they are things that brings smiles to our faces). So what do women really want in a relationship excluding the big pieces, just focusing on the little pieces that fills up the gaps?

- A hug from nowhere. Even if all you wanted to do is to sleep or get on with other things in life, taking that extra 10 seconds to hug the love of your life will mean more than the world to her.

- Call her even when you have nothing to tell her in particular. Need not be sweet nothings but just a call to ask how she's doing will definitely bring a smile to her face. And no matter how busy a woman is, she will always make time for the man she loves. If she's genuinely busy, she will call you back. Trust me!

- Spend a day of doing nothing. It's not about the swanky parties or expensive dinners, it's all about the quality time. The together time. The "Snug" time.

- Appreciate the little things she does. If you know she's more forgiving of you than she really should be, acknowledge that.

- Let her know she's not being taken for granted.

- Ex-girlfriends for friends is cool. Ex-girlfriends for confidante is NOT COOL at all.

- Reinstating point 1, hug her from behind. The closeness is usually unsurpassable.

- Compliment on how she looks. You do not need to lie. If the radioactive green is ugly, tell her maybe ruby red is better BUT she's got either nice shoes or hair though. I'm sure there's something you can compliment on. She doesn't need to know she's the prettiest girl in the universe but she needs to know she's beautiful in YOUR eyes.

- Run your hands through her hair. Smell her.

- She wants you to know she's the best thing that ever happened to you and you need to recognise that.

- Tell her what you're thinking even though you aren't even sure what you're thinking.

Lastly, if you love her, tell her... But only if you really mean it.